Experiment a little with some different people and see where it takes you. Just go with what you're comfortable with. Sexuality is really fluid, and changes in how you perceive yourself can be a little jarring and scary. Like, Chaning Tatum, I think, is a little fugly, whereas I would totally have sex with Seth Rogen if I were single and no one's feelings would get hurt.īut basically, yes, your sexuality can seem to change overnight, although these feelings may have been in your heart all the time. For me, it's not that I don't find men attractive, I just find fewer and fewer to be attractive, and I have *very* specific tastes when it comes to men. It was almost over night, although I stayed in denial about it for a very long time because I was (and still am) in a very serious relationship with the (male) love of my life. And once that happened, I suddenly started to become aware of all of the women around me and so many things that I had been feeling finally made sense. And then when I got to be about 20 or so, it finally occurred to me that I could be bi. And then, sometime after I turned 17, I started forming "celebrity girl crushes" and I would do the whole, "I'm not a lesbian, but." thing. But I liked men, so all of these feelings kind of went on the back burner. Making new, close female friends had always felt a little awkward because of this. I had always admired other girls, get unreasonably (but secretly) jealous or sad when they got boyfriends, felt the butterflies in my stomach when I hung out with girls that I really really liked. I know my own "coming out" to myself was a little unconventional. Stranger things have happened, dancingswan.
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Then getting with someone new and carefully balancing your acts not to show any past relationships related problems with your next partner, but adding your new experience about how to avoid getting involved into bad relationships. Identifying and not making the same mistakes that you did in your previous relationships. Not to get involved in a relationship until you know you're healed. So the solution is to help yourself finding ways to avoid getting hurt again. And as the saying goes, "the grass isn't greener on the other side". Basically because your experience has given you too much of a shock to be ready to experience another hit like this again. You imagine yourself that they are perfect, so much more perfect than men, and that they are the ones you should go after now. But that special factor you're facing right now is multiplying your attraction to women to an abnormal degree. Most women find women attractive, and it doesn't mean they're homosexual. Seems like you're experiencing the sour taste of a painful exposure and your body is trying to find alternate options. There's no "Lesbian On Switch" so, what the heck is even going on with me!? I'm pretty sure it doesn't work like that.
Now on the other hand I fantasize about women all the time, but it feels like I just all of a sudden started liking women and not liking men.
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But now I see a guy who's obviously attractive, I start thinking about something else, like if I left the lights on or what the name was of some movie I saw. Like, when I used to see a really cute guy on the street or whatever My eyes got a little wider and I would think about what turned me on about him, or if I was feeling frisky what it might be like to kiss him. I know there are a lot of wonderful men out there I'm just not attracted to them.) Well I thought that was what was happening to me ( only on a lesser scale, I'm not a man hater. You know how you start hating the opposite sex after you have a break up? You blame the whole gender for all that suffering you've endured, bla bla bla whatever. I thought I was just going through a phase.